About two weeks after I had surgery for both an Inguinal and an umbilical hernia, one of the incisions burst open in bed, drenching me with blood. I went to the hospital, and the doctor told me that it was infected, and they’d probably have to remove the meshes, and that I’d have both hernias back while we dealt with the infection, and then we’d have to start all over again. I thought the day couldn’t get any worse. I was wrong.
Just as I was trying to absorb the doctor’s words and wondering how I was going to do all that again, my phone rang. It was my brother, calling to tell me that his only son, Jason, had died from a drug overdose. It was on the Ides of March.
When the doctor opened me up again, the mesh still looked okay, so she left the incision open, and I have to pack it with gauze every day. I still have quite a gash, but it’s slowly healing from the inside. I’m actually going for a little stroll with my latest walkin’ stick, and I still hope to run a 5K race this summer.
Ufda, that’s awful. 😦
Hope things look up for you and your family soon! Sending warm thoughts your way.
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Thank you Holly,time heals wounds…some wounds are too deep, though, I feel so bad for my brother.
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Wow! sounds like you have really been trough the mill! Infection is a real bummer! Hope all goes well this time.
Dwight
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They switched me over to smaller gauze patches (with bleach) and it is healing. Thank you for caring!
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I hope you will recover fast. I am sure you already have. Am sorry and saddened by your loss.
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Thanks, Yassy, you’re always so kind, and my eyes light up every time I see you have a new post.
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Thank you , Michael. Have a nice weekend.
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I wish you fast recovery!
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Thank you, it’s (slowly) getting better.
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Sympathies for your brother & family – sad times indeed, but I hope you get well soon. Great staff – the perfect companion for a constitutional.
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Thanks Alex, I really like working with diamond willow
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Best wishes for total recovery! You remind me of Gandalf a bit with that staff.
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Yea, some of the younger folk like to call me Wiz, I love working with diamond willow.
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Sure am hoping that you feel better soon! So sorry about your nephew.
Getting older sure is not for sissies! I have rheumatoid arthritis and osteoarthritis and the incoming rains are doing a number on my ankle!
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Wishing both you and your brother well.
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Thank you very much.
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